Author: Kathy Husser (Tempe)

Kathy Husser is a Tempe librarian and educator who enjoys travel and learning about our global cultures. With post pandemic traveling open up more and more, Kathy wants to share resources for family friendly getaways and fun trips to meet your vacation needs. She enjoys gardening, the outdoors and cooking too!

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Relationships

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As we age, the significance of relationships becomes increasingly apparent. While youth often comes with an abundance of social interactions and casual connections, getting older tends to bring a deeper appreciation for meaningful relationships.

These connections, whether with family, friends, or partners, play an essential role in maintaining emotional, mental, and even physical well-being.

Emotional Support and Resilience

One of the greatest benefits of maintaining relationships as you get older is the emotional support they provide. Life presents ongoing challenges—health issues, loss, and major life transitions can become more frequent.

Having a solid network of friends or loved ones to lean on during these times provides much-needed comfort and resilience. Emotional support helps alleviate feelings of loneliness and isolation, which can significantly impact mental health. A strong support system fosters a sense of belonging and helps you navigate difficult moments with greater ease.

Mental and Cognitive Health

Relationships also contribute to mental sharpness and cognitive health. As we age, staying socially active can reduce the risk of cognitive decline. Regular interactions with friends and loved ones keep the mind engaged, offering stimulating conversations, new perspectives, and challenges.

Whether it’s catching up over coffee, playing a game, or discussing a book, social engagements help maintain brain health and prevent feelings of stagnation or boredom.

 Physical Health and Longevity

There is growing evidence that strong relationships are linked to better physical health. Studies have shown that individuals with close connections tend to live longer and experience better health outcomes than those who are isolated. Companionship encourages healthier behaviors, such as exercising, eating well, and attending medical checkups.

Friends and family members often provide gentle reminders to take care of ourselves, whether it’s a daily walk or a visit to the doctor.

The Value of Making New Connections

While maintaining existing relationships is crucial, making new connections as you get older is equally important. Life changes—such as retirement, moving, or the loss of loved ones—can reduce your social circle. Seeking new friendships or rekindling old ones can reinvigorate your social life. Joining clubs, engaging in community activities, or pursuing hobbies can introduce you to new people with shared interests.

As you age, relationships become one of the most important pillars of a happy, healthy life. Maintaining connections with friends and loved ones provides emotional support, improves cognitive function, and enhances overall well-being.

Whether nurturing existing bonds or building new ones, staying socially connected is key to thriving in later life.

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Growth Mindset

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Learning from mistakes and adopting a growth mindset are important for achieving success in both personal and professional goals. Embracing these principles not only increases resilience but also fosters continuous improvement and development.

A growth mindset, a concept popularized by psychologist Carol Dweck, is the belief that abilities and intelligence can be developed through effort and learning. Individuals with a growth mindset view challenges as opportunities to grow rather than obstacles. This perspective encourages them to take risks and embrace new experiences, knowing that mistakes are part of the learning process.

Mistakes, while often viewed negatively, are valuable learning opportunities. When individuals make errors, they gain insights that can lead to better decision-making in the future. Instead of dwelling on failures, those with a growth mindset analyze what went wrong and why. This reflective process encourages a deeper understanding of their strengths and weaknesses. This allows them to adjust their strategies and methods moving forward.

Furthermore, learning from mistakes promotes resilience. Instead of feeling defeated by setbacks, individuals can cultivate a sense of perseverance. Each mistake can be reframed as a stepping stone toward success. This resilience is essential in a world where challenges and failures are unavoidable. By developing the ability to bounce back, individuals can maintain motivation and continue working toward their goals.

A growth mindset also encourages a love of learning. Individuals become curious and open to feedback, seeking out opportunities for growth and improvement. This eagerness to learn can lead to the development of new skills and a deeper understanding of one’s field. As individuals continue to expand their knowledge and abilities, they position themselves for greater success.

In addition, cultivating a growth mindset promotes collaboration and support among peers. When individuals are open about their mistakes and willing to learn from each other, it creates an environment of trust and innovation. Team members are more likely to share ideas and take risks, leading to collective growth and success.

Learning from mistakes and embracing a growth mindset are vital for achieving success. By viewing challenges as opportunities for growth, individuals can develop resilience, foster a love of learning, and enhance collaboration. This approach not only leads to personal development but also contributes to a more innovative and dynamic environment. This sets the stage for lasting success in your career and personal life.

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What I Learned

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What I’ve learned over a 43-year career in education and public service is quite simple. And here’s my story to illustrate a few lessons from experience.

Rejection is Re-Direction

My very first interview was with Jack-in-the-Box, a fast food restaurant. I knew the Assistant Manager, a friend from high school, and thought I’d be great at the job. A job I needed to pay my way for a Student Council Conference in Nevada that summer. I didn’t get the job, despite my friend, Peter’s, recommendation.

Disappointment set in, until a week later the supervisor for our public library called me for an interview!  In two weeks, I would be shelving books, in the air-conditioned comfort of my local library.  Thank you, Mary!

Keep Growing

This first high school job, turned into a promotion, raises, and life experience managing people. Working at the library, with our team and leadership during this time was the best learning experience to set me on my career path.  I earned a degree, moved across country and worked for two food companies expanding my people skills into another industry.

I learned from other people different from me. I grew in my career (with more promotions) when young women were just starting to venture out independently in their careers. For example, I was one of the first women to wear pants in my company. I didn’t know I “shouldn’t” in the early 90’s, and I started a “trend” for the female staff.

Take a Break

Taking a break from your career is also a personal decision, my family made when I had children. There was no option to work remotely, and women were still the main caretakers during those years.

This “re-direction” worked out, because when my youngest was 5, I started working again at my public library. And this is the Universe providing the opportunity I needed, at the right time in my career.

I had the best boss, since the manager that hired me left two weeks into my tenure. But, he told me, “You’re ‘good people’ Kathy, and you’ll do well even after I’ve retired.”  After 25 years, that compliment and the break he provided me was the start of something even better.

Good Habits Equal Success

Back at the library, I learned every aspect of City government and managing large and smaller teams. My growth was due to volunteering for opportunities and always helping others which strengthen my people skills. Over time these work habits, plus self-awareness, and my solid reputation enabled me to reach my ultimate goal of Director.

The one thing I didn’t do, was applaud my own success. (Women tend not to “toot their own horn,” even today…. but we’re getting better!)

Over time with more rejection and redirection, I’ve discovered your career is not linear. Your career will take detours for many reasons. At times, you have no control over your path. But my innate character qualities, strong habits, and work ethic allowed me to succeed in other roles.

Roles that gave me more learning opportunities and success beyond my dreams.  I even returned to work for an organization that got me started early in my career. They knew me, my work, and my kind-heartedness. Match made in heaven!

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Professional Development

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Professional development includes a variety of learning opportunities that can enhance skills and knowledge in the workplace. Different types of professional development can significantly benefit individuals. Each education offering gives you advantages depending on your learning preferences and career goals. As a 25-year veteran of civil service and private business, let’s take a look at what is right for you and your ambitions.

Workshops and Seminars

These are typically short, focused sessions that dive into specific topics. Workshops often provide hands-on experience and real-time feedback. Participating in seminars allows for immediate application of new skills, making it easier to incorporate knowledge into daily tasks.

These formats encourage networking with peers and industry experts, fostering valuable connections. Traveling to a new city or industry event is also part of a workshop’s draw for professionals.

Online Courses

With the rise of digital learning platforms, online courses offer flexibility in scheduling and content delivery. Individuals can learn at their own pace. You select topics that align with their career aspirations and learning goals.  Online courses often provide a wide range of subjects, from technical skills to soft skills like communication and leadership. You also don’t have to travel anywhere but to your computer, allowing for a tailored and efficient learning experience.

Mentorship Programs

Engaging in a mentorship relationship provides personalized guidance and support. Mentors can share their experiences, helping mentees navigate career challenges and opportunities.

This one-on-one interaction fosters deeper learning and insight, promoting personal and professional growth. A word of caution is trust must be the foundation of your mentor relationship.  You will not benefit and could be hurt if trust is broken or never present in the mentor program.

Industry Conferences

Attending conferences exposes you to the latest trends, innovations, and best practices in your field. These events often feature keynote speakers and panel discussions, providing insights from thought leaders. Networking opportunities flourish, enabling professionals to connect with potential collaborators or employers.

ALA for librarians and education sales professionals enable connections to be made and sustained yearly. If you can attend, do it.  You will benefit in the long run and so will your career.

Certifications and Credentials

Pursuing industry-specific certifications demonstrates commitment and expertise in a particular area. These credentials can enhance employability and open doors to promotions. You will showcase dedication to professional growth and your commitment to your organization when you go that extra mile.

Various types of professional development offer different benefits. By exploring workshops, online courses, mentorships, conferences, and certifications, individuals can tailor learning experiences. These opportunities will meet specific needs and your individual career goals. Embracing these occasions can lead to improved skills, increased job satisfaction, and greater career advancement. 

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Exploring Chicago

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Chicago comes alive in spring, offering plenty of activities and attractions for visitors to explore. The city’s parks, architecture, and vibrant neighborhoods make it a must-visit travel destination. I’ve visited Chicago for work and pleasure many times, and these are my top sites to see.

Millennium Park and Cloud Gate

Millennium Park is a top destination in Chicago. It’s home to the famous Cloud Gate, also called “The Bean.” This reflective sculpture draws crowds, perfect for photos and relaxing nearby. In spring, the park’s greenery and flowers bloom, creating a beautiful setting for outdoor walks. The flowers are truly amazing for any photographer!

The Art Institute of Chicago

The Art Institute of Chicago is one of the best art museums in the world. Its impressive collection includes famous works by Monet, Van Gogh, and Picasso. Spring is a great time to visit, with special exhibitions often hosted during this season. Art students can be seen during the school year sketching and enjoying the works.

Stroll Along the Chicago Riverwalk

The Chicago Riverwalk offers a scenic place to enjoy the city’s stunning architecture. Springtime brings comfortable temperatures for walking along the river. Cafés and restaurants along the Riverwalk open up in the spring, making it a great spot for lunch. Don’t forget the rooftop restaurants that offer a magnificent view of the city as well.

Chicago Architecture Tour

Spring is the perfect time for a Chicago architecture boat tour. This popular attraction provides a unique perspective of the city’s skyscrapers. The guided tours offer fascinating details about Chicago’s architectural history while you cruise along the Chicago River. I’ve taken this tour and walked away with a new appreciation of the city’s buildings and history.

Navy Pier and Lakefront Views

Navy Pier is a lively destination with attractions, shops, and restaurants. In spring, the pier becomes especially vibrant with seasonal events and outdoor entertainment. Enjoy stunning views of Lake Michigan from the pier’s Ferris wheel or simply stroll along its promenade.

Lincoln Park Zoo

Lincoln Park Zoo, one of the oldest zoos in the U.S., and is free to visit. Spring is an ideal time to explore its exhibits, with animals more active in mild weather. The surrounding park is also beautiful, with flowers blooming and fresh greenery.

Magnificent Mile Shopping

The Magnificent Mile is Chicago’s premier shopping district. Springtime brings great window displays and outdoor events to this iconic area. You’ll find everything from luxury brands to unique local shops.  Just window shopping is a treat down this iconic Chicago street.

Chicago offers an exciting mix of culture, history, and entertainment. In spring, the city’s parks, attractions, and neighborhoods provide countless opportunities to explore. Whether admiring art, cruising the river, or enjoying the outdoors, Chicago is an unforgettable destination this season.  Book your trip and enjoy the weather and sites with your family.

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Continuing Education

Leadership written in blue and hand writing the word visible.Continuing education is crucial for professionals at any stage of their careers, even after achieving a stable position. In today’s rapidly evolving job market, staying current with industry trends and advancements is essential. Ongoing learning helps you adapt to changes in technology, regulations, and best practices. This ensuring you are relevant and competitive in your role.

Skills

One of the primary benefits of continuing education is skill enhancement. As industries evolve, new skills become necessary. By pursuing further education, professionals acquire new skills. This allows you to take on new responsibilities and improve job performance. A proactive approach can lead to career advancement, promotions, and increased job satisfaction.

Personal Growth

Continuing education fosters personal growth. Engaging in new learning experiences encourages critical thinking and creativity. It opens up opportunities to explore diverse perspectives and innovative solutions to challenges in the workplace. This not only enhances individual capabilities but also contributes to a more dynamic and productive work environment.

Networking

Networking opportunities also abound with continuing education. Workshops, seminars, and courses provide platforms for professionals to connect with peers and industry leaders. These connections can lead toward collaborations, mentorships, and other job opportunities. These will further enhance your career prospects down the road.

Lifelong Learning

Additionally, pursuing continuing education demonstrates a commitment to lifelong learning. Employers value individuals who actively seek knowledge and self-improvement. This dedication can set you apart from peers, showcasing your motivation and ambition.

Education is vital for career growth and personal development. It enables professionals to adapt to changes, acquire new skills, foster creativity, and build valuable networks. Embracing lifelong learning not only enhances individual careers but also contributes to a more knowledgeable and skilled workforce. Prioritizing ongoing education is essential for sustained success in any profession.

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Experiencing Spain

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My recent trip to Spain this year was an eye-opening experience! Not just from a travel perspective, rather experiencing a foreign country gave me hope along with new stories to tell.

Future Advances

Visiting Spain allowed me to see the results of future advances in transportation, crowd management, and lifestyle.  The public transportation system in Spain, especially Barcelona, is easy to navigate and ADA-friendly. With elevators at most stops, recessed curbs, and clean stations locals use the tram, train, and subway (Metro) lines exclusively. Plus, there was a high percentage of electric vehicles, which meant less petrol (gas) stations, smog, and noise.

The tourist sites, while busy, were easily managed with online pre-ticketed sales. No ticket, no entry if the quota for the day was already met. On top of that, residents were very friendly and kind despite my 2 years of high school Spanish. Citizens were helpful and took pride in their city and professions.  You got a feeling of National pride from the Spanish people which resonated the entire trip.

History Revisited

The history dates back to Roman Times, 300 B.C. Spain’s rich history has held space for wars, communism, and the monarchy. Today, the future Queen of Spain is in her second year of military service to her country. The archives, architecture, and lessons learned have not been without growing pains or evolution. But the evolution is present and felt throughout your interactions with people.

The population is concentrated in the cities, but a vast agricultural community keeps the food prices reasonable and fresh. I’ve never tasted such sweet tomatoes or such rich creamy butter. Plus, eggs were $2.85 a dozen! There’s something to say for their proximity to other European resources, and it shows in the Spanish food.

Finally, I would say from a travel perspective it provided hope for me personally. To see a thriving country, with low food costs, a content nation, and smart innovations for their citizens. I can see why many foreigners flock to Spain to experience the lifestyle. And why taxes are levied to keep the cities clean and stabilized. Put Spain on your travel list this year, and you won’t regret it.

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Relocating Out of State

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Relocating to another state can be an exciting yet challenging experience. The key to a successful move lies in careful planning and execution. Here are some essential steps to ensure a smooth interstate move.  From contacting movers to negotiating contracts, these tips will help you with the transition.

Research and Contact Reliable Movers

The first step is start researching moving companies as early as possible. Look for movers that specialize in interstate moves, as they’ll be more familiar with the logistics and regulations involved. Utilize online reviews, ask for recommendations from friends or family. Finally, be sure to verify the company’s credentials through the Federal Motor Carrier Safety Administration (FMCSA). Ensure the company is licensed, insured, and has a U.S. Department of Transportation (USDOT) number.

Once you’ve shortlisted a few companies, request in-home or virtual estimates. This will provide a more accurate quote based on the volume of items to be moved. Beware of companies that offer lowball estimates, as they might add hidden charges later.

Negotiate and Finalize the Contract

Before signing a contract, thoroughly review all the details. The contract should outline the total cost, services included, & delivery timeline. Most importantly, any additional fees such as packing materials or handling specialty items needs to be detailed in the contract.

Don’t hesitate to negotiate the price. Ask if there are any discounts available, such as for flexible moving dates, military service, or AAA membership.  Prices will go up, but won’t ever go down, so negotiate ahead of the move.

Pay close attention to the type of estimate provided—whether it’s binding, non-binding, or binding-not-to-exceed. A binding estimate guarantees the final cost won’t exceed the quoted amount, which can provide peace of mind.

Additionally, ask about the company’s claims process in case of damage or loss during the move. Understanding this beforehand will save you time and frustration if issues arise. Read the fine print and be prepared just in case something unexpected happens during the trip.

Plan for a Smooth Moving Day

In the weeks leading up to the move, create a detailed moving checklist. This should include tasks such as updating your address with the post office, transferring utilities, and securing important documents. Declutter your home by selling, donating, or discarding items you no longer need. This can also reduce your moving costs quite a bit.

On moving day, have a bag packed with essentials like toiletries, medications, important documents, and a change of clothes. This ensures you have everything you need during transit, while waiting for your belongings to arrive at your new home.

Stay Organized and Communicate

Maintain clear communication with your movers. Confirm details like the arrival time, delivery window, and any special instructions for your belongings. Keep a copy of the contract and inventory list handy in case of discrepancies.

Finally, just being patient and positive with the moving company will help your stress level. Unexpected events can happen out of the ordinary, like weather or traffic which affect the movers’ timeline.

Moving to another state is a significant life event, but with proper preparation, it can be a stress-free experience. By researching, creating a detailed plan, and staying organized, you can ensure your move goes smoothly. This will allow you to focus on settling into your new home.

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Springbreak 2025

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Spring break is here for 2025. It’s an ideal time for solo travelers to embark on an adventure tailored to their own pace and interests. Whether you’re looking to relax beachside, explore the great outdoors, or discover hidden gems, here are destinations for solo travel.

 Beaches

For solo travelers seeking sun and sand, the U.S. boasts some incredible beach destinations. Sanibel Island, Florida is a perfect choice for those looking for a quieter, more relaxed vibe. Famous for its shell-covered beaches and stunning sunsets, Sanibel offers plenty of relaxation. You can explore the island by bike, visit the J.N. “Ding” Darling National Wildlife Refuge, or simply unwind.

Another great option is Carmel-by-the-Sea, California. This charming coastal town is known for its stunning beaches, art galleries, and quaint cottages. Stroll along the scenic 17-Mile Drive, visit the historic Carmel Mission, or enjoy some solitude on the beautiful Carmel Beach. It’s a perfect blend of natural beauty and small-town charm, ideal for a peaceful solo retreat. 

National Parks

Spring is a wonderful time to visit some of the United States’ most iconic national parks, especially before the summer crowds arrive.  Zion National Park in Utah is a top pick for solo travelers who love hiking and stunning landscapes. With trails ranging from easy walks to challenging climbs, Zion offers something for everyone. The Narrows and Angel’s Landing are two must-see hikes, providing breathtaking views and a true sense of adventure.

Great Smoky Mountains National Park, straddling the border between North Carolina and Tennessee, is another excellent destination. Spring brings blooming wildflowers and flowing waterfalls, making it a beautiful time to explore the park’s network of trails. The park’s peaceful atmosphere and wildlife provide a perfect backdrop for solo reflection and nature enjoyment. (Be sure to check road conditions with the recent fall storms that have left many communities isolated.)

Off the Beaten Track

If you’re looking to escape the crowds entirely, consider visiting some lesser-known destinations. Taos, New Mexico offers a unique blend of Native American culture, stunning desert landscapes, and rich artistic heritage. Explore Taos Pueblo, take a hot air balloon ride over Rio Grande Gorge, or visit the many art galleries. Taos’ tranquil environment makes it a perfect spot for solo travelers seeking solitude and inspiration.

Another hidden gem is Door County, Wisconsin. Located on a peninsula between Green Bay and Lake Michigan. Door County is known for its charming small towns, scenic coastal views, and outdoor activities. Explore the numerous lighthouses, hike in Peninsula State Park, or enjoy a peaceful kayak ride on the lake.

Whether you want a quiet beach, hiking through national parks, or discovering hidden treasures, the U.S. offers destinations perfect for solo spring breakers. These locations not only provide beauty and adventure but also the opportunity for personal growth, reflection, and the freedom to create your own unique travel experience.

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Valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s Day, often celebrated as a day of romantic love, has evolved into a broader celebration of friendship and kindness. While traditionally linked with couples, this day offers a chance to extend love and appreciation beyond romantic relationships.

It’s a chance to recognize and cherish the various forms of love that enrich our lives. Whether it’s the bond with family, the friendship of colleagues, or the support of close friends, celebrate this year!

Celebrating Love

Valentine’s Day is a perfect reminder that love is not limited to just one type of relationship. While celebrating couples is popular, the 14th can also be about expressing gratitude to those who are important to us. Family members, colleagues, schoolmates, and friends contribute to our happiness and well-being every day. Remember these folks in countless ways, since they also deserve recognition and your love.

Family is often our first experience of love, providing a foundation of support and care. This Valentine’s Day, consider showing appreciation to your parents, siblings, or even extended family members. A heartfelt note, a phone call, or a small gift can make them feel valued and loved.

Co-Workers and Schoolmates

We spend a lot of time with our cc-workers and classmates. These relationships play an important role in our daily lives. They support us in our work or studies, celebrate our successes, and help us through challenges. Valentine’s Day offers a unique opportunity to strengthen these bonds.

Consider organizing a small celebration at work or school, where everyone exchanges cards or small tokens of appreciation. This can foster a sense of community and remind everyone that they are valued.

Cherishing Friendship

Friendship is another powerful form of love that often gets overlooked on Valentine’s Day. Friends are the ones who stand by us through thick and thin, offering advice, laughter, and companionship.

Take time this Valentine’s Day to reach out to your close friends. Plan a get-together, send a thoughtful message, or even share a meal. These gestures can deepen your connections and remind your friends how much they mean to you.

Valentine’s Day is more than just a celebration of romantic love. It’s an opportunity to acknowledge all the important relationships in our lives. By extending our appreciation to family members, colleagues, schoolmates, and friends, we can spread positivity and strengthen the bonds that make life meaningful.

This Valentine’s Day, let’s embrace the full range of love and celebrate the people who make our lives richer.  Happy Valentine’s Day!

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