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Comforting Fiction Books

Comforting and Uplifting Fiction

Here’s a list of fiction titles that support well-being by offering emotional comfort, inspiration, perspective, or a calming escape. As a librarian, I would recommend them all depending upon what you like to read.  These books make great gifts too.

These books are heartwarming, gentle, and affirming—perfect for lifting your mood.

  1. The House in the Cerulean Sea by TJ Klune
  2. Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman
  3. A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman
  4. The Rosie Project by Graeme Simsion
  5. Major Pettigrew’s Last Stand by Helen Simonson

Emotionally Insightful and Empathetic Reads

These novels deepen your emotional intelligence and help you better understand yourself and others.

  1. The Midnight Library by Matt Haig
  2. Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng
  3. The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd
  4. The Giver of Stars by Jojo Moyes
  5. The Light Between Oceans by M.L. Stedman

Peaceful and Reflective Fiction

Perfect for calming the mind and nourishing the soul with quiet beauty.

  1. The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry by Rachel Joyce
  2. The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey
  3. Gilead by Marilynne Robinson
  4. Our Souls at Night by Kent Haruf
  5. The Hen Who Dreamed She Could Fly by Sun-mi Hwang

Whimsical and Imaginative Escapes

Let your mind wander into enchanting, hopeful worlds that offer rest from real-life stress.

  1. The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern
  2. Piranesi by Susanna Clarke
  3. Stardust by Neil Gaiman
  4. The Ten Thousand Doors of January by Alix E. Harrow
  5. The Keeper of Lost Things by Ruth Hogan

These books can ease anxiety, spark reflection, and create a sense of connection—all vital parts of well-being.

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Song Sung Blue

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The movie to see this year is “Song Sung Blue.” A true love story about living your dreams no matter what!

Neil Diamond Inspired

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Inspired by Neil Diamond, the movie follows Mike and Claire Sardina, artfully played by Hugh Jackman and Kate Hudson. Hudson has been nominated for a Golden Globe Award and SAG award. The duo leads a successful tribute band to Neil Diamond in Madison, Wisconsin in the 1990’s. Jackman and Hudson sing the Diamond tunes masterfully. From the feel-good songs to the emotional ballads, all of Diamond’s songs are all covered beautifully.

Tragedy Strikes

Like life, there are many ups and very tragic downs in the Sardina story, we can all relate too. These crisis’s are the moments that speak to us about life’s thin balance between happy and hopeless. The love story is the main focus and Hudson and Jackman provide a personal line into the strong bond of Mike and Claire. All their struggles and joy highlighted by the music of Neil Diamond.

Claire Lives in Phoenix

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I was fortunate enough to enjoy the highly rated “So Good, The Neil Diamond Experience,” on January 6, 2026. Claire actually lives in the Phoenix and performed a short song with the lead singer, Richard Neary. Please, take a peak and you won’t be sorry, especially if you’ve seen Claire and Mike’s story. If you haven’t seen “Song Sung Blue” you can stream the real documentary the movie was based on for FREE. Truly an experience you won’t forget.

Claire’s singing from January’s concert is linked here. After watching, you can understand why she is experiencing such interest in her story. You can catch the Golden Globes on Sunday, January 11th.

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New Year Reflections

New Year

The new year, 2026 is right around the corner.  This is a time I take to reflect on the last 12 months. Here are some topics to consider while you take stock of the new year ahead.

Personal Growth

Reflecting on my growth throughout the last year is important. What career goals did I have for 2025, and did they become reality? Think about any obstacles you overcame to achieve certain targets in your life, like travel, volunteering, or mentoring at work.   Also consider any new purpose you might have needed to pivot too last year for family, friends, or yourself.  How is that progressing or holding you back for 2026?

Physical Health

None of us are getting younger each year. Think about your physical health.  Can you still run that marathon or walk that flight of stairs easily?  Take stock of your limits, if any.  What will you need to do in 2026 to maintain or improve your health?

Maybe a gym membership is in your future. Or will a regular walking date with a friend do the trick to get you back on track this year.  Eating whole and “one-ingredient” foods will always help regulate your physical wellbeing and improve your health stats.

Comfort Zones

Finally, what is your current comfort zone and is that what you want? Determine if you need to shake things up in 2026 and push outside your self-imposed limits. What do you really want out of 2026?  Start a business?  Move across the country or to another country?

What is a dream you have been putting off until the timing was “right?” Make that dream come true is year with a plan, hard work, and consistency.

There is no right time to start something new, but you’ll regret never starting this time next year. Wishing you and yours a very Happy New Year filled with joy and dreams that fill your soul.

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Staying Thankful

Staying thankful through major life changes—such as moving, changing careers, or facing health challenges—can be overwhelming. These transitions often bring uncertainty, fear, and disruption to our routines. Yet, how we respond to change plays a vital role in our overall health and well-being. Maintaining a positive attitude during these times isn’t just comforting—it’s a powerful tool. A tool that can protect both your mental and physical health.

The Power of Perspective

While we can’t always control what happens in life, we can control how we interpret and react to it. A positive mindset doesn’t mean ignoring pain or pretending everything is fine. Instead, it means choosing to face challenges with hope, openness, and the belief that you can grow through adversity.

Research shows that people with a positive outlook recover faster from setbacks, have lower levels of stress, and are more resilient. They’re more likely to find meaning in hardship and adapt in healthy ways. Even small shifts in thinking—focusing on what you can control, practicing gratitude, or seeing challenges as opportunities make a difference.

Health Benefits of Staying Positive

A positive attitude does more than lift your mood. It’s been linked to a variety of health benefits, including:

  • Stronger immune function: Optimistic individuals tend to have better immune responses, helping them fight illness more effectively.
  • Lower stress levels: Positivity reduces the effects of chronic stress, which can harm the body over time.
  • Heart health: Studies show that positive thinking is associated with lower blood pressure and a reduced risk of heart disease.
  • Improved mental health: A hopeful outlook can ease symptoms of depression and anxiety, and boost feelings of self-worth and motivation.

Taking Care of Yourself

Supporting your physical health during change is just as important. Regular exercise, nutritious food, and restful sleep give your body the strength it needs to handle emotional ups and downs. Equally important is seeking connection. For example, talking to friends, journaling, or asking for help when needed are great ways to cope.

Remember, it’s okay to feel unsettled during major life shifts. But by nurturing a positive attitude, you create space for healing, growth, and even joy in the face of change.

Life will always bring change, but your mindset can shape how that change affects you. Stay hopeful, stay kind to yourself, and take care of your health, inside and out.

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Passive-Aggressive People

Passive-aggressive behavior can be frustrating and confusing. It often shows up as sarcasm, silent treatment, procrastination, or subtle digs that mask real emotions. Instead of expressing anger or disagreement openly, passive-aggressive individuals avoid direct conflict, which can make relationships and work situations feel tense and unclear.

Understanding Passive-Aggressive Behavior

Before responding, it helps to understand what drives passive-aggressive behavior. Often, it stems from a fear of conflict, insecurity, or a lack of assertive communication skills. These individuals may feel powerless or unheard, and use indirect methods to express their dissatisfaction. Recognizing these patterns without taking them personally is key to handling the situation calmly.

How to Communicate Effectively

When dealing with passive-aggressive people, clarity and calmness are essential. Avoid responding with similar behavior or sarcasm, which will only escalate tension. Instead, use assertive, respectful communication. For example, if a colleague “forgets” your request repeatedly, address it calmly: “I’ve noticed that the report hasn’t been turned in. Is there something preventing you from finishing it?”

Stick to the facts, not feelings. Focus on behaviors rather than accusing the person’s character. Use “I” statements to express how the behavior affects you: “I feel frustrated when deadlines are missed, because it impacts the whole team.”

If someone uses sarcasm or avoids a topic, gently bring the issue into the open. Say something like, “It sounds like you might be upset—do you want to talk about it?” This gives them space to share what’s really going on, without feeling attacked.

Getting Along at Work and in Life

In the workplace, maintaining professionalism is crucial. Set clear expectations, document important interactions, and follow up in writing when needed. If you’re in a leadership role, create an environment where open communication is encouraged and respected. When passive-aggressive behavior becomes disruptive, involve HR or a supervisor for support.

In personal relationships, set healthy boundaries and remain consistent. Avoid reacting emotionally or being drawn into guilt trips or manipulation. Sometimes, distance may be necessary if the behavior doesn’t improve despite honest communication.

Patience and empathy help too. Try to see the person behind the behavior—someone who may feel unheard, overwhelmed, or afraid of confrontation.

Dealing with passive-aggressive people isn’t easy, but it’s manageable with self-awareness, clear communication, and firm boundaries. By staying calm, calling out behavior respectfully, and encouraging openness, you can reduce tension and build healthier interactions at work and in life.

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2026 Goals

As we enter the last few weeks of 2026, your goals for next year should be reviewed. It’s the perfect time to reassess your accomplishments for 2025 and organize the new year ahead.

How did 2025 shake out?

I like to make a list (using last year’s focus) on what was achieved in your career this year.  Did your career targets meet your expectations?  What goals need revising or provide feedback for other career tracks, like a promotion or movement to a different area?  Get an assessment for where you’re at in your job and make a goal(s) for 2026.

Does your lifestyle fit you?

Again, ask yourself the questions about who you’re socializing with and why.  Does my “tribe” support my long- and short-term goals?  Am I getting the support I need to make my dreams a reality? Plus, remember lifestyle is everything from your budget on spending, where you live, and who you hang out with. These all need to align with who you truly are and where you’d like to end up.

Is your mindset supportive or hurting you?

Your frame of mind has a huge impact on your personal goals and their success. For example, if you’d like to try to learn a new language, hobby, or change careers you can!  You have to start, without having the mastery or confidence to be good at first.  We all start out as a student at some time in our lives. But, never starting that path toward change, will definitely hinder your progress toward learning and growth.

So, the old saying rings true, “If you think you can or cannot, you are always right!”  Having a positive mindset to achieve your goal is the first step toward success!

Keeping a record

Finally, keep a record of your yearly objectives with a timeline, benchmarks, and feedback for improvement. Keeping track of your progress makes you accountable especially if you share your goals with friends and family. You can change anything. If you really want something bad enough it is usually achievable with hard work, perseverance, and patience.

Create your 2026 goals to reflect your lifestyle and dreams and don’t ever give up! 

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Power of Organization

Organization brings clarity and peace. On the other, hand living in a cluttered space can feel overwhelming and chaotic. Disorganization often leads to stress, distraction, and decreased productivity. Research shows clutter increases cortisol, the stress hormone, especially in women. A disorganized home sends constant visual reminders of unfinished tasks. This creates mental fatigue and makes it harder to focus or relax.

A clean, decluttered space helps you think more clearly and feel more in control. Studies have shown that people with tidy homes tend to be healthier overall. They also sleep better and report lower levels of anxiety. Organization promotes better time management and smoother daily routines.

Every object in your home should have a purpose and place. When things are scattered, time is wasted looking for them. A tidy space reduces distractions and helps your brain focus on what matters. Even small organizational habits can produce big improvements in mood and energy.

Decluttering

Decluttering is not just about throwing things away, but a habit to develop. It’s about making space for what truly supports your life. Start by sorting items into categories: keep, donate, recycle, and discard. Work room by room, focusing on one area at a time. Celebrate small wins to stay motivated and consistent.

Clutter can also carry emotional weight. Items tied to guilt or nostalgia can create mental roadblocks. Letting go of unneeded things helps you emotionally detach and feel lighter. It clears mental space along with physical space. Your home becomes a sanctuary instead of a source of stress.

Living with Less

Minimalism doesn’t mean living with nothing—it means living with intention. When your space supports your values, you feel more aligned and peaceful. Organized homes also help children learn responsibility and reduce family tension. Everyone benefits from a system that’s easy to follow.

Routine maintenance is key to staying organized. Your goal should be to take 10 minutes daily to reset your space. Return items to their place and resist the urge to accumulate. Before buying something new, ask yourself if it adds real value. Mindful purchasing reduces clutter and saves money long term.

Lifestyle Shift

Decluttering isn’t a one-time project—it’s a lifestyle shift. It requires regular reflection on what you really need and use. Organized homes encourage more intentional living and healthier habits. You’re more likely to cook, exercise, or meditate in a clean, open space. It becomes easier to welcome guests without shame or stress.

A decluttered home reflects a decluttered mind. It’s easier to find joy in your environment and stay motivated. You gain time, energy, and peace from a well-ordered space. Your home should be a retreat, not a source of chaos.

Start small, stay consistent, and build momentum. Organization brings freedom, not restriction. It empowers you to live a more focused, purposeful life. Make space for the life you want to live—one room, one drawer at a time.

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Career Education

Have an agenda and your goals will be accomplished
There is no agenda in life, just be flexible.

What I’ve learned over a 43-year career in education and public service is quite simple. And here’s my story to illustrate a few lessons from experience.

Rejection is Re-Direction

My very first interview was with Jack-in-the-Box, a fast food restaurant. I knew the Assistant Manager, a friend from high school, and thought I’d be great at the job. A job I needed to pay my way for a Student Council Conference in Nevada that summer. I didn’t get the job, despite my friend, Peter’s, recommendation. Disappointment set in, until a week later the supervisor for our public library called me for an interview!  In two weeks, I would be shelving books, in the air-conditioned comfort of my local library.  Thank you, Mary!

Keep Growing

This first high school job, turned into a promotion, raises, and life experience managing people. Working at the library, with our team and leadership during this time was the best learning experience to set me on my career path.  I earned a degree, moved across country and worked for two food companies expanding my people skills into another industry.

I learned from other people different from me. I grew in my career (with more promotions) when young women were just starting to venture out independently in their careers. For example, I was one of the first women to wear pants in my company. I didn’t know I “shouldn’t” in the early 90’s, and I started a “trend” for the female staff.

Take a Break

Taking a break from your career is also a personal decision, my family made when I had children. There was no option to work remotely, and women were still the main caretakers during those years.  This “re-direction” worked out, because when my youngest was 5, I started working again at my public library. And this is the Universe providing the opportunity I needed, at the right time in my career.

I had the best boss, since the manager that hired me left two weeks into my tenure. But, he told me, “You’re ‘good people’ Kathy, and you’ll do well even after I’ve retired.”  After 25 years, that compliment and the break he provided me was the start of something even better.

Good Habits Equal Success

Back at the library, I learned every aspect of City government and managing large and smaller teams. My growth was due to volunteering for opportunities and always helping others which strengthen my people skills. Over time these work habits, plus self-awareness, and my solid reputation enabled me to reach my ultimate goal of Director. The one thing I didn’t do, was applaud my own success. (Women tend not to “toot their own horn,” even today…. but we’re getting better!)

Over time with more rejection and redirection, I’ve discovered your career is not linear. Your career will take detours for many reasons. At times, you have no control over your path. But my innate character qualities, strong habits, and work ethic allowed me to succeed in other roles.

Roles that gave me more learning opportunities and success beyond my dreams.  I even returned to work for an organization that got me started early in my career. They knew me, my work, and my kind-heartedness. Match made in heaven!

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Healthy Cooking

Healthy Home Cooking

As we age, we need to be more aware of the foods we put into our bodies. These simple tips will help you cook at home, be more healthy, and save time.

Here’s a simple list to help for a longer, better life:

  1. Control Your Ingredients
    Home cooking lets you manage salt, sugar, and fat.
  2. Add More Veggies
    Fresh produce boosts nutrients and overall wellness.
  3. Avoid Processed Foods
    Cooked meals cut harmful additives and preservatives.
  4. Support Heart and Brain Health
    Balanced meals improve long-term body and mind function.
  5. Lower Disease Risk
    Reduce obesity, diabetes, and high blood pressure naturally.

Stronger Habits

  1. Strengthen Family Bonds
    Sharing meals brings emotional connection and joy.
  2. Build Lifelong Habits
    Regular cooking encourages healthy, lasting routines.
  3. Live Longer
    Studies link frequent home cooking to longevity.
  4. Boost Immunity
    Whole foods help your body fight illness.

Be Mindful

  1. Save Money
    Meal planning and home prep lower grocery bills.
  2. Waste Less
    Cooking at home means smarter, cleaner food use.
  3. Practice Mindful Eating
    Focused meals support better digestion and satisfaction.
  4. Relieve Stress
    Cooking offers creative, calming benefits.
  5. Teach Healthy Habits
    Kids who cook eat better as adults.
  6. Enjoy Simple, Tasty Meals
    Home food can be quick, fun, and nourishing.
  7. Create Routine and Rhythm
    Meal time brings structure to busy days.
  8. Boost Energy Naturally
    Nutrient-rich food fuels your body better.
  9. Try New Things
    Explore flavors, cultures, and skills in your kitchen.
  10. Feel More Balanced
    Cooking brings intention and presence to everyday life.
  11. Start Small, Stay Consistent
    Healthy home meals lead to a longer, richer life.

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Older People

Here are some thoughtful and practical tips to help you engage more meaningfully with older people, whether they’re family members or part of your community:

  1. Be Present and Patient
  • Slow down and give your full attention.
  • Let conversations unfold naturally—don’t rush or interrupt.
  • Many older adults appreciate the chance to share stories without feeling hurried.
  1. Ask About Their Life Experiences
  • Invite them to tell stories about their childhood, career, or past adventures.
  • Ask open-ended questions like, “What was your favorite memory growing up?” or “What was life like when you were my age?”
  • These stories often reveal valuable life lessons and create deep emotional bonds.
  1. Share Your Life, Too
  • Talk about your own life, even the small things.
  • Older adults often enjoy hearing about current trends, technology, or what’s going on in your world.
  • Sharing creates mutual interest and keeps the connection two-sided.
  1. Participate in Activities Together
  • Cook a meal, take a walk, do a puzzle, or look through old photos.
  • Simple shared activities foster connection and give space for natural conversation.
  • Choose things that match their energy level and interests.
  1. Show Respect for Their Wisdom
  • Acknowledge their experiences and knowledge, even when you don’t agree.
  • Avoid dismissing their views as “outdated.” Instead, listen and ask why they feel the way they do.
  • This builds trust and honors their role as a valued part of your life
  1. Use Technology to Stay in Touch
  • If you’re far away, teach them how to use video calls or messaging apps.
  • Send pictures, updates, or even voice notes to keep them involved in your life.
  • A little effort goes a long way in reducing feelings of isolation
  1. Be Consistent
  • Regular check-ins, whether weekly calls or occasional visits, show you care.
  • Consistency builds a lasting relationship and helps older adults feel seen and valued.
  1. Involve Them in Family or Community Events
  • Invite them to birthday parties, holiday gatherings, or school events.
  • Their presence enriches the experience for everyone and strengthens family or community bonds.

Meaningful connection with older adults isn’t complicated—it just takes time, attention, and a little intention.