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Exploring Chicago

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Chicago comes alive in spring, offering plenty of activities and attractions for visitors to explore. The city’s parks, architecture, and vibrant neighborhoods make it a must-visit travel destination. I’ve visited Chicago for work and pleasure many times, and these are my top sites to see.

Millennium Park and Cloud Gate

Millennium Park is a top destination in Chicago. It’s home to the famous Cloud Gate, also called “The Bean.” This reflective sculpture draws crowds, perfect for photos and relaxing nearby. In spring, the park’s greenery and flowers bloom, creating a beautiful setting for outdoor walks. The flowers are truly amazing for any photographer!

The Art Institute of Chicago

The Art Institute of Chicago is one of the best art museums in the world. Its impressive collection includes famous works by Monet, Van Gogh, and Picasso. Spring is a great time to visit, with special exhibitions often hosted during this season. Art students can be seen during the school year sketching and enjoying the works.

Stroll Along the Chicago Riverwalk

The Chicago Riverwalk offers a scenic place to enjoy the city’s stunning architecture. Springtime brings comfortable temperatures for walking along the river. Cafés and restaurants along the Riverwalk open up in the spring, making it a great spot for lunch. Don’t forget the rooftop restaurants that offer a magnificent view of the city as well.

Chicago Architecture Tour

Spring is the perfect time for a Chicago architecture boat tour. This popular attraction provides a unique perspective of the city’s skyscrapers. The guided tours offer fascinating details about Chicago’s architectural history while you cruise along the Chicago River. I’ve taken this tour and walked away with a new appreciation of the city’s buildings and history.

Navy Pier and Lakefront Views

Navy Pier is a lively destination with attractions, shops, and restaurants. In spring, the pier becomes especially vibrant with seasonal events and outdoor entertainment. Enjoy stunning views of Lake Michigan from the pier’s Ferris wheel or simply stroll along its promenade.

Lincoln Park Zoo

Lincoln Park Zoo, one of the oldest zoos in the U.S., and is free to visit. Spring is an ideal time to explore its exhibits, with animals more active in mild weather. The surrounding park is also beautiful, with flowers blooming and fresh greenery.

Magnificent Mile Shopping

The Magnificent Mile is Chicago’s premier shopping district. Springtime brings great window displays and outdoor events to this iconic area. You’ll find everything from luxury brands to unique local shops.  Just window shopping is a treat down this iconic Chicago street.

Chicago offers an exciting mix of culture, history, and entertainment. In spring, the city’s parks, attractions, and neighborhoods provide countless opportunities to explore. Whether admiring art, cruising the river, or enjoying the outdoors, Chicago is an unforgettable destination this season.  Book your trip and enjoy the weather and sites with your family.

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Holiday Recipes

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Holiday recipes will not be the same as the “recipes” I shared for the Thanksgiving holiday. These recipes are how to celebrate the holidays to bring you joy this year and next. Here are a few ideas to make this holiday season shine!

Work Reflection

Reflecting on the past year during this time brings great comfort and clarification of the past 11 to 12 months.  What work goals did you achieve?  What new goals for your career will you begin?  Think about the changes in your job and home life you had this year; was it beneficial? Out of your control?  This is the time to set your path on what you’ll be focusing on for 2025 in your career.

Relationships

Relationships, like life, are always changing. What relationships would you like to nurture next year or pull away from?  As you grow, your relationships will change with you as your boundaries grow and are defined.

When I was a mom with your kids, my circle of friends were other moms from our play group. As my children grew, my friendships changed too. Work relationships and my friends from the gym become my focus, as my kids gained their own circle of friends. Getting out there making new friends feels good and is healthy.

Health

Health and wellness are always important, so a recipe for success always starts with your self-care first.  Look at your nutrition, physical exercise, and mindset to create a path to wellness. Stress can be the biggest obstacle to positive mental and physical fitness. Your mind can make or break you, so meditation and taking time for yourself is important for a healthy outlook. A 15- minute walk after dinner or before you set off for work in the morning helps clear your mind.

There is no tried and true path for a happy life, but there are “recipes” to help you learn, grow, and thrive every year. Taking this time during the holidays to re-evaluate habits in your life that need focus will help.  Life is about change, and I hope yours is positive and productive.

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Career Wisdom

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As you progress in your career you pick up morsels of wisdom. Recently I found a post by a former journalist and leader that I enjoyed reading.  Here are few “bite-size” morsels to help you navigate your career.

Harvey Mackay is a self-made business person and wise mentor sharing his experience.

For example, he was quoted, “Don’t just mark time; use time to make your mark.” I liken Harvey’s wisdom to that of James Clear’s career advice.  Clear is known for his best-selling book, “Atomic Habits” and routinely speaks at Fortune 500 gatherings and keynotes.

The times and mode of communication have changed. James’ profile on LinkedIn has thousands of followers. Harvey was syndicated in national newspapers for years. However, the common sense habits and “grit” needed to succeed, then and now, are the same.

Another bit of “Harvey wisdom,” reads like something out of Clear’s current playbook. “Technology should improve your life, not become your life.”  Compared to James Clear’s recent quote:

 “Simple ways to have a peaceful moment:

-Close your eyes and just breathe for two minutes.

-Leave your phone in another room for an hour…”

So, my point is wisdom comes in all forms and changes slightly over time. But really, your experiences shape the person you want to be and will become. Kindness, consistency, and putting the work in will result in rewards.  Rewards of goals achieved, dreams realized, and what success looks like for you.

Life is full of mishaps, fun, and opportunities. Be ready for what comes your way. As Harvey stated, “How people play the game shows something of their character. How they lose shows all of it.”  Food for thought…

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It’s Not You

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After reading Dr. Ramani Durvasula’s new book, “It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People,” I had to share. This book is life affirming if you need to understand why “bad things” happen to you and motivators of narcissists. Dr. Durvasula also provides extensive strategies for healing and dealing with these highly manipulative and vengeful people.

Who Are They? 

We don’t know why people act the way they do to hurt others. It’s a diagnosed personality disorder that is finally getting the attention it needs. The definition of a narcissistic goes beyond just wanting their way all the time or being powerful.  It’s about people you have in your life, that abuse and shift blame by gaslighting, manipulating, and lying without remorse.

“Nothing is ever their responsibility or their fault because for a narcissistic person to take responsibility or accept blame means having to accept that they are accountable and imperfect.”

There are varying levels of abusive behaviors outlined, some classified as “malignant narcissists.”

They malign people publicly, or harm their reputations. They are highly manipulative, transactional, and judge everyone based on how useful they are – whether for power, profits, pleasure, or validation. In the simplest framing, the malignant narcissist is a bully, mean and menacing…”

You will recognize the examples used in your own family or workplace relationships. You will also understand how often these behaviors happen and go unchecked in society. The focus is never really on the narcissistic, but more on the actions of the victims being abused.  Almost as if the victim has something wrong with them, despite the facts not adding up from narcissist’s manipulated account.

How Does It Happen?

If you are in an abusive relationship, the obvious answer is to leave. But it’s not always that simple. Dr. Durvasula provides examples where it’s just not possible to leave a job, marriage or other important relationship despite abuse. The victim talks themselves out of it, thinks THEY are the reason that these “bad things” are happening.

Victims routinely believe the manufactured and false narratives about what is taking place due to other silent and compliant people.  It boils down to trust. When those closest to you break that trust and know what’s really going on but do nothing, that’s your truth.

“In other words, narcissistic people make you feel small so they can feel safe.” 

These narcissists get something from their victims while “love bombing,” charming them, and prioritizing the relationship.  When the victim realizes what is actually going on and sets boundaries and reveals the truth, all hell breaks loose.  

“Hell, really hath no fury like a narcissist scorned. Their vindictive behavior may range from spreading damaging workplace gossip” to other more harmful and life threating outcomes.

Be warned, that stalking and public humiliation of their victims is quite commonplace for these individuals. Their tactics escalate when their victims pull away or start understanding the truth about past events. 

How to Protect Yourself 

There are many strategies discussed in the book to combat DARVO, or the common methods narcissists use.  (That’s a very useful chapter.) You should also try to distance yourself spiritually or physically from your abuser(s.) If you must stay in a relationship for work or family reasons, sound strategies are provided. These will help you heal and learn to deal with these negative people. As the author states, you will be better informed the next time you come across these individuals. And you most definitely will!

The healing that takes place when you know you’re not the crazy one is incredible. Narcissist behaviors happen daily to so many of us, but now you have a voice…an authentic voice.

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Halloween 2024

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A bright sunflower growing in my front yard garden.

Halloween is just a few days away.  Planning the perfect costume that is safe, non-political, and easy to pull together can be a challenge in 2024 Fear not! Here are four suggestions that will spark your imagination for a memorable Halloween for all.

Classic Costumes

You can never go wrong with a simple ghost, zombie, or witch this Halloween. Even a retro T-shirt with a Halloween saying is an easy way to have fun and stay in the Halloween spirit.

Mythical Creatures

Embrace the magic of legends by dressing up as a mythical creature. From fairies and unicorns to dragons and mermaids, the options are endless. Tap into your imagination and create a costume that brings these creatures to life. You can use colorful fabrics, sparkly accessories, and face paint to enhance the fantastical elements.

Let your creativity soar as you craft wings for a fairy or design scales for a mermaid. These fun costumes are sure to inspire you to add your own creative touches. The popularity of these TV series are perfect for all ages.

Book Characters

Pay tribute to the beloved characters from your favorite books by bringing them to life this Halloween. Whether it’s Cinderella, Harry Potter, or the mischievous Cat in the Hat. These literary icons offer a world of possibilities for creative costumes.

Browse your local thrift stores or search your own closet for clothing items that resemble the characters’ signature styles. Add some key accessories, such as Cinderella’s shiny heels or Harry Potter’s round glasses, to complete the look. Not only will you celebrate your love for books, but you’ll inspire others to dive into the world of reading.

Taylor and Travis

Yes, our perfect couple is still very popular for Halloween this year. Why not mix-up the best of both football and music? Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift “look a likes” would make a perfect Halloween couple’s costume.  Athletics and pop music blend seamlessly and talk about easy costumes to gather. A Kansas City football jersey and some “Swiftie” swag and you are both set for Halloween!  You could also add those personal touches of hair color, beard, microphone, and #13 for effect.  Have fun this year with our most watched couple of 2024.

Choosing a safe, non-political, and easy-to-pull-together Halloween costume may seem like a challenge. But, these suggestions provide a perfect starting point. Whether you opt for a classic Halloween character, pop icons, or a beloved book character, the key is creativity people!

Remember, safety should always come first.  Also ensure your costume is comfortable, allows for easy movement, and doesn’t block your vision. And don’t forget to add your own personal flair and unique touches to make the costume truly yours.

As Halloween approaches, let your imagination run wild and create a costume that brings joy to those around you. Whether you’re trick-or-treating, attending a party, or simply celebrating at home, these ideas will help.

Keeping the focus on the fun and festive spirit of Halloween is the main point.  So, unleash your inner creative spirit, gather your materials, and get ready for a Halloween filled with magic!

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Strategies for Work

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As we navigate work, the landscape of career development continues to evolve at a rapid pace. With technological advancements, shifting job markets, and the rise of remote work, professionals must be more strategic and adaptable than ever. Here are key strategies and habits to effectively navigate your career goals this year.

Lifelong Learning

The importance of continuous learning cannot be overstated. With industries rapidly changing, staying updated with the latest skills and knowledge is crucial. Enroll in online courses, attend workshops, and pursue certifications relevant to your field. Lifelong learning not only keeps you competitive but also opens up new opportunities for career advancement.

Technology is Vital

Technology is a driving force in the modern workplace. Familiarize yourself with digital tools and platforms that can enhance your productivity and efficiency. From project management software to data analysis tools, being tech-savvy can give you a significant edge.

Additionally, building a strong online presence through LinkedIn and other professional networks can help you connect with industry leaders and potential employers.

Adapt to Hybrid Work

The shift to remote and hybrid work models is here to stay. Develop strong self-discipline, time management, and communication skills to thrive in these environments.

Create a dedicated workspace and establish a routine that fosters productivity. Being adaptable and comfortable with virtual collaboration tools is essential for success in a remote or hybrid setup.

Network

Networking remains a critical component of career development. Attend industry conferences, join professional associations, and participate in online forums. Networking helps you stay informed about industry trends, gain insights from peers, and discover job opportunities. Building a diverse professional network can provide support and guidance throughout your career journey.

Set Clear Goals

Define your career goals with clarity. Whether aiming for a promotion or starting your own business, setting specific measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals is essential. Break down your long-term goals into smaller, manageable steps and track your progress regularly.

Seek Coaching

Mentors and career coaches can provide valuable guidance and support. They can help you navigate challenges, identify strengths and weaknesses, and develop a clear career path. Don’t hesitate to seek advice from experienced professionals who can offer insights based on their own career journeys.

Navigating career goals requires an adaptive mindset. By embracing lifelong learning, leveraging technology, networking actively, setting clear goals, and seeking mentorship, you can succeed at a new job. Change will enable you to achieve your career goals and thrive in an ever-evolving world.

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Communication Styles

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Understanding communication styles within your team is crucial when starting a new project or job. Effective communication is the backbone of successful teamwork and can impact the outcome of any collaborative effort. By recognizing and adapting to different styles, team members can improve their interactions, reduce misunderstandings, and foster a pleasant working environment.

Communication Styles Vary Widely

Communication styles can vary widely among individuals. Some people are direct and assertive, while others may be more reserved and indirect. There are those who prefer detailed and structured communication, and those who are more flexible and informal. Understanding these differences is the first step towards effective communication.

Affect Team Dynamics

Diverse communication styles can either be a source of strength or conflict within a team. When team members understand and respect each other’s communication preferences, it leads to smoother interactions and better collaboration. On the other hand, ignoring these differences can result in miscommunication, frustration, and decreased productivity.

Building Trust and Rapport

Trust and rapport are essential components of a successful team. When team members feel understood and respected, they are more likely to open up and share their ideas and concerns. By adapting to different communication styles, team leaders can build trust and rapport more effectively, creating a positive and inclusive team culture.

Being clear ensures that everyone is on the same page and understands their roles and responsibilities. Misunderstandings can lead to mistakes, missed deadlines, and conflicts. By tailoring communication to suit the audience, team members can ensure that their messages are received and understood correctly.

Inclusivity and Collaboration

Inclusive communication practices help create an environment where everyone feels valued and heard. Recognizing and respecting different communication styles promotes inclusivity and encourages team members to contribute their unique perspectives and ideas. This collaborative approach can lead to more innovative solutions and better project outcomes.

Practical Strategies

To understand and adapt to different communication styles, consider the following strategies:
Active Listening: Pay attention to what others are saying and show genuine interest in their viewpoints.
Ask Questions:   Clarify any uncertainties by asking open-ended questions.
Be Flexible:  Adjust your communication style to match the preferences of your team members.
Provide Feedback: Give constructive feedback in a way that aligns with the recipient’s communication style.

Use Multiple Channels: Utilize various communication channels (IE: emails, meetings, instant messaging) to accommodate different preferences.

Understanding communication styles within your team is fundamental when starting a new project or job. By recognizing and adapting to these differences, team members can enhance their interactions, build trust, and foster a more collaborative and productive working environment. Effective communication is not just about conveying information; it’s about connecting with others in a way that is meaningful.

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Interviewing and Soft Skills

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In today’s job market, having the technical skills and qualifications is no longer enough to secure employment. Increasingly, employers are placing greater emphasis on soft skills and emotional intelligence during the interview process. Interpersonal skills not only shape how individuals interact with others but also play a role in their success at work.

Why So Valuable

Soft skills include a wide range of traits, including communication, teamwork, problem-solving, adaptability, and time management. While technical skills may vary from one job to another, soft skills are universally valued across all industries and professions. Employers recognize that candidates who possess strong soft skills are better equipped to collaborate with colleagues. They are also able to resolve conflicts and navigate the complexities of the modern workplace.

How Are Soft Skills Evaluated?

During the interview process, employers assess candidates’ soft skills through a variety of methods. This includes behavioral questions, situational scenarios, and role-playing exercises. By evaluating candidates’ responses and observing their demeanor, interviewers can gauge their level of emotional intelligence. Your interpersonal competence is actually a decent indicator of how well you will handle certain difficult situations.

EQ

Emotional intelligence, often referred to as EQ, is another essential aspect of success in the workplace. It encompasses self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, and social skills. Workers with high emotional intelligence are better able to understand and manage their own emotions. They can also communicate effectively with others and will build positive relationships in the workplace.

Employers value emotional intelligence because it fosters a supportive and collaborative work environment. It also enhances leadership effectiveness and improves employee morale and engagement. Additionally, individuals with high emotional intelligence are better equipped to handle stress, navigate change, and adapt to new challenges, These employees are invaluable assets to any organization and should be developed into leaders for the future.

Interviewing and Storytelling

During the interview process, candidates can demonstrate their soft skills and emotional intelligence by providing specific examples. While interviewing tell your story and how you solved a difficult situation. By sharing examples of collaboration, problem-solving, and effective communication, candidates can showcase their interpersonal strengths. These will highlight your ability to contribute positively to the organization and your new team.

Soft skills and emotional intelligence cannot be overstated in today’s job market. Employers recognize that candidates who possess strong interpersonal qualities are better equipped to succeed in the workplace and make meaningful contributions. By emphasizing soft skills and emotional intelligence during the interview process, candidates can differentiate themselves from the competition. Best of luck and tell your story!

 

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Starting A New Job

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Starting a new job is an exciting yet crucial phase in your career journey, and establishing effective communication with your new boss is essential. Engaging in open and strategic discussions early on can set the tone for a successful and productive working relationship. Here are the top four topics to discuss with your new boss as you embark on this professional adventure.

Expectations and Goals

Start a conversation with your new boss about expectations and goals. Gain clarity on what they see for your role and how success will be measured. This discussion allows you to support your work objectives with those of the team and the entire organization.

Understanding your manager’s expectations provides valuable insights into priorities, preferred work styles, and the overall mission of the organization. It’s an opportunity to express your enthusiasm for contributing to the team overall success. You also can seek direction on how you can excel in your new role.

Communication Styles

Effective communication is the cornerstone of a positive working relationship. Take the time to discuss communication preferences with your new boss. Inquire about preferred channels of communication.  Do they prefer email, regular check-in meetings, or a project management platform for updates? Clarify expectations regarding your progress, reporting structures, and how feedback will be delivered.

Establishing clear communication guidelines helps create a pleasant working environment. It also ensures you and your manager are on the same page regarding information flow.

Professional Development Opportunities

Express your commitment to professional growth by discussing potential opportunities for development. Inquire about training programs, mentorship possibilities, or skill-building initiatives within the company. Understanding the organization’s investment in employee development demonstrates your eagerness to contribute in the long term.

It’s also an excellent opportunity to discuss your career goals and how the company can support your ambitions. This conversation showcases your dedication to personal growth and also sets the stage for a collaborative approach to career advancement.

Establishing a Feedback Loop

Consider adding a fourth topic to your discussions: the establishment of a feedback loop. Express your openness to receiving constructive feedback and inquire about your supervisor’s preferred method for providing input. A proactive approach to feedback fosters a culture of continuous improvement and demonstrates your commitment to personal and team successes.

The initial conversations with your new boss lay the foundation for a positive and productive working relationship. Discussing expectations, communication preferences, and professional development opportunities allows for alignment and mutual understanding.

Additionally, establishing a feedback loop sets the stage for ongoing improvement and collaboration. By addressing these essential topics, you set the foundation for a successful and fulfilling career.

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Back to School

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As summer draws to a close, the familiar routine of back to school calls. Whether you’re returning to elementary, high school, or college, being fully prepared is important for a successful year. But what does it mean to be prepared? It’s not just about having the right tablet or laptop; it’s also about being mentally, physically, and emotionally ready.

Mentally Prepared

Being mentally prepared is like training before a race—it’s the foundation upon which all other preparations rest. Mental readiness means a positive attitude, clear goals, and effective time management skills. When you approach the school year with a growth mindset, you’re better equipped to handle demands, setbacks, and deadlines.

Cultivating resilience and adaptability allows you to navigate any obstacles that may arise, turning them into opportunities for growth.

Physical Preparedness

Just as a well-tuned engine powers a car, physical preparedness fuels your body and mind for the educational journey ahead. This includes getting enough sleep, maintaining a balanced diet, and staying physically active. Adequate sleep is vital, as it enhances cognitive function, your memory, and mood regulation.

These are essential for effective learning. Similarly, nourishing your body with nutritious foods and staying hydrated provide the energy needed to excel in the classroom. Regular exercise not only boosts physical health but also improves mental clarity and reduces stress. This is setting the stage for your academic success.

Emotional Support

Emotional preparedness involves resilience and building a support network to weather the highs and lows of the school year. Acknowledge and validate your feelings, whether they’re excitement, anxiety, or uncertainty. Seek out supportive friends, family members, or mentors who can offer guidance and encouragement.

Developing healthy coping skills, such as mindfulness or journaling, can also help manage stress and promote emotional well-being. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help when you need it, and taking care of your mental health is just as important as your academic achievements.

Start the new school year off right by keeping your mind and body in tip top shape this year.

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